enhance: [skip e2e] Enhance standalone_embed add DEPLOY_MODE=STANDALONE (#43772)

- add  DEPLOY_MODE=STANDALONE
- fix standalone_embed.bat  milvus images version
- add delete confirm 

https://github.com/milvus-io/milvus/issues/43760
https://github.com/milvus-io/milvus/issues/43681

Signed-off-by: Linkwei <link.xie@zilliz.com>

scripts/standalone_embed.bat

@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@ if "%1"=="restart" (
     call :delete
 ) else (
     echo Unknown command.
-    echo Please use standalone_embed.bat restart^|start^|stop^|upgrade^|delete
+    echo Please use standalone_embed.bat restart^|start^|stop^|delete
     exit /b 1
 )
 goto :eof
@@ -68,6 +68,7 @@ docker run -d ^
     -e ETCD_DATA_DIR=/var/lib/milvus/etcd ^
     -e ETCD_CONFIG_PATH=/milvus/configs/embedEtcd.yaml ^
     -e COMMON_STORAGETYPE=local ^
+    -e DEPLOY_MODE=STANDALONE ^
     -v "%cd%\volumes\milvus:/var/lib/milvus" ^
     -v "%cd%\embedEtcd.yaml:/milvus/configs/embedEtcd.yaml" ^
     -v "%cd%\user.yaml:/milvus/configs/user.yaml" ^
@@ -144,11 +145,19 @@ echo Delete Milvus container successfully.
 goto :eof
 
 :delete
-call :delete_container
-rmdir /s /q "%cd%\volumes"
-del /q embedEtcd.yaml
-del /q user.yaml
-echo Delete successfully.
+set /p check="Please confirm if you'd like to proceed with the delete. This operation will delete the container and data. Confirm with 'y' for yes or 'n' for no. > "
+if /i "%check%"=="y" (
+    call :delete_container
+    rmdir /s /q "%cd%\volumes"
+    del /q embedEtcd.yaml
+    del /q user.yaml
+    echo Delete successfully.
+) else (
+    echo Exit delete
+    exit /b 0
+)
 goto :eof
 
+
+
 :EOF

scripts/standalone_embed.sh

@@ -47,6 +47,7 @@ EOF
         -e ETCD_DATA_DIR=/var/lib/milvus/etcd \
         -e ETCD_CONFIG_PATH=/milvus/configs/embedEtcd.yaml \
         -e COMMON_STORAGETYPE=local \
+        -e DEPLOY_MODE=STANDALONE \
         -v $(pwd)/volumes/milvus:/var/lib/milvus \
         -v $(pwd)/embedEtcd.yaml:/milvus/configs/embedEtcd.yaml \
         -v $(pwd)/user.yaml:/milvus/configs/user.yaml \
@@ -131,11 +132,17 @@ delete_container() {
 }
 
 delete() {
+    read -p "Please confirm if you'd like to proceed with the delete. This operation will delete the container and data. Confirm with 'y' for yes or 'n' for no. > " check
+    if [ "$check" == "y" ] ||[ "$check" == "Y" ];then
         delete_container
         sudo rm -rf $(pwd)/volumes
         sudo rm -rf $(pwd)/embedEtcd.yaml
         sudo rm -rf $(pwd)/user.yaml
         echo "Delete successfully."
+    else
+        echo "Exit delete"
+        exit 0
+    fi
 }
 
 upgrade() {